What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:14
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
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8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
Is anyone up to have a little conversation?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
Are landlords allowed to make unreasonable requests?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
*** Random Questions ***
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Have you ever had sex with sisters?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
Why are Trump's and Khan's experiences with authorities in the US and Pakistan similar?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Why do older men like to get anal sex?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
It seems that I am cursed with bad luck. How do I break such a curse?
How old are you? Male or Female?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Why do people still think Michael Jackson was guilty?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
What are the most significant instances of romantic jealousy in the Harry Potter series?
52~ What are your hobbies?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
How did the Nazis figure out whether a person or community is 'Aryan' or not?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
Would you read them together?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Nothing too Serious
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
*** Questions About Me ***
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
29- How superstitious are you?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
What is your favorite position? Why?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
Any that are a turn off?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Please share Did you stop?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Any that are a turn off?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
If you win, what will you make them do?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
The Ice Breaker Questions
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
If yes, what?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Family Relation Age Play
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
39~ What are your love languages?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)